You can no longer hide. I am pushing you from your nest of comfort. This is your moment to organize yourself. Like a good friend has told you, treat yourself like the person you want to be, not as something you are trying to be. At this moment. You are married to yourself, you are your husband (or wife, however you like to view it). You are your romance. You are your best friend. You are your own hype man. You will give yourself respect. Love. Understanding. You will confide in yourself and stop yearning for others. And you will achieve the attention you want. In the end, your love for yourself will find love from others. Work hard!
I will try to add a new chapter every week. Please let me know if I need any changes, if I need to add more. Feedback would be great.