My Relationship With Me Was Key To Happiness
A Guide to Into Me I SeeK
- 16440 Words
- Ages 10 and up
So who am I? My relationship
with myself answered that question.
When I began to love myself unconditional, I had a need to love others the same. My relationship with myself helped me to stop judging or criticizing myself, therefore I stopped doing it to others. This is how my relationships improved with others, even if I did not like someone or vice versa.
I realized that my personal relationship with myself affected others and created my reality. Am I gentle, ashamed, or merciful towards myself, am I overly critical of myself, or do I hide my true feelings from myself? I used to be unconscious of how I really felt about me.
My flaws, my weaknesses and how I truly felt about me was affecting others, even how others treated me. The things I did not like about me had me get into conflict with others. Cultivating an unconditional love for myself was my cure. I had to accept everything about me and my life, positive and negative, even my past mistakes. love all of me even when I was broke.
I believe a good relationship with ourselves is equivalent to a personal relationship with God, Higher self, and the universe. This allowed me to trust nature. A healthy relationship with ourselves can only be possible through self-reflection, looking inwards into our darkness. Love changed my perception of myself, and that everyone matters regardless of my personal feelings. We are who we are.
This way we can love others as they are, it is not our fault why a person is a way they are. I do not know what they have been through. So I began to love others unconditionally, even those who I personally do not like. We don't have to like everybody, but we can treat everyone with respect by letting them be.
But first, I had to treat myself this way to express it outwardly to others.
My relationship with my wife is still not perfect, I don't believe that there is such a situation. I am still learning and growing. I believe that external relationships are a direct reflection of who we are internal. Intimacy which is (into me I seek). God within will guide us through intuition.
Breakups can be one of the toughest things to overcome when we do not learn why it had to end.
The stability of a relationship begins in infancy, psychological anguish is the reason why most of my relationships failed. I used chakra work to help me heal from my traumatic experiences. I am not saying this is the only way. As I became aware of Higher Self/Spirit within, I started to see my old perception of myself unfold in front of my eyes.
I then saw how my strengths and weaknesses due to insecurities affected my relationships with others. I noticed how my hidden pain and anger from my past experiences interfered with my relationship with myself.
I lost good and important people because I had issues that I refused to come face to face with. I let my pride get in the way blaming others seeing myself as perfect. [more]
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